IOnceDatedAGuy I met online, he drove a motorbike and he wanted to go swimming on a first date. Swimming isn’t super my thing and I think it’s a bit of an awkward date but I agreed. He told me his bike was being worked on so he’d pick me up in his car. Day of the date comes and he picks me up in a small white work van….red flag 1. He said it was his work van and was the only other transport he had. He drove us swimming, the date was fine, pretty standard, no sparks flying or anything. 1/2