I spend a decade of my life being treated for a mental disorder that I did not have because of the mindset that I just needed to try harder and be more disciplined. Weirdly enough when I started accepting my ADHD paralysis and my autistic/adhd hyperfixation, I started being better and I stopped being depressed and crippled by my anxiety. Anxiety. That entire mindset is the reason why so many women specifically never get a diagnosis or end up being diagnosed with the wrong s***