Ex-mo here- I personally wasn’t pressured, but I was also a girl and the age was 21 until my senior year of high school. I have two younger brothers, the older of the two was lightly pressured by my mom but not my dad (convert). The younger was never pressured (he’s autistic and likely wouldn’t thrive). I don’t know that either of them even got their patriarchal blessing 🤷🏻‍♀️