Update: people are beautiful. Their minds, their bodies, their souls. It's hard to separate that attraction to those types of things. So i've tried redefining that attraction to appreciation to aspects that I find appealing about each person. Thinking about it like that makes it easier to speak on those things to those people, and let them know that they've got something really cool about them. It makes me happy to get them to see that someone sees them for those beautiful parts of themselves~