MEN: if you’re going 50/50 on bills with your wife and you’re both working, and you both come home, are you still expecting her to do ALL of the cooking and cleaning or is that split 50/50 as well? WOMEN: if your man is paying all of the bills and you do not HAVE to work, are you still going to expect your man to cook and/or clean when he comes home from his job, or will you do ALL of the cooking and cleaning?