A man who wants to be kept My mom told me this before in regards of look, because I was quite worried to choose one that has better look over the other for the risk of being disondol. My mum said (in Kelate) “ore jate ni, kalau dia gelnya, dio muko pecoh rumoh pun dia boleh ado tino lain. Kalau jenis semat pun, kalau dio tok gelnya, tak dok tino lain. So, atas perangai dio la gano,” In which, I find, very much is true.