I don’t want to be invited to a wedding. Was once belittled when I cannot afford to give someone more than what they expected. When I got married, I didn’t expect my invitees to give us anything. We invited them because we want them to be part of our special day and was grateful for their presence. Nowadays, people tends to think they can get back what they spent on their wedding. But after all my rambling lol, the cost per plate is best to give as a monetary wedding gift.