Dulu selalu ada mindset, i want to work to afford so many things in life, and by tht time tak pernah minta langsung duit suami or apa2 sebab nak suami tahu kita ni independent ( suami cuma bagi nafkah wajib je ) and little did i know benda tu merosakkan my marriage in such a way i tak hormat sangat my husband (tapi dia tak pernah rasa i tak hormat dia) cause i keep in inside my mind mcm (kalau takde suami pun i still can afford so many things)