Look, I am not a Swiftie (I’m Swift agnostic). I have no great affection for Miley Cyrus. I don’t think either is perfect and they occasionally warrant criticism. The number of 👨 on the internet criticizing these two women for having the audacity to promote themselves and/or be confident though. Yikes. Your problem isn’t the behavior, it’s that women engaged in it. There is zero reason for either woman to be less of themselves to accommodate you.