This is some of the dumbest shit I’ve ever read. Being a mother also means protecting ur kids from whomever and whatever especially if they’re toddlers or school age. The trauma that’s brought when u have a person in and out of ur life in brief sporadic moments “can be” traumatizing and create mental health issues as a result. Wonder why we gave so many disgruntled and dysfunctional men and women walking around, then read this. This is where I stand and I’m not going back n forth with anybody.