My discernment of ppl has grown a lot lately. When ppl react to things negatively, I can usually tell why. Whether it’s b/c of their ego, attatchment or abandonment issues, fear (usually disguised as anger), trauma, etc. Being able to identify these issues in people enables me to be more compassionate and understand that their negative reactions are caused by whatever they’re battling internally. Therefore, I’m able to handle those situations appropriately and know not to take things personally.