“I wish I could come but my schedule is so maxed out writing a book. “Sorry my kitchen is a mess, it’s dance performance season and I have zero free time. ” “Sorry I haven’t responded, I’m super busy!” These things are true, but the truer truth is that with or without being a chronically busy high achieving person, basic adulting tasks are always going to be hard for me and I’ll probably never have the same social battery as others.