If a new mom shares with you her goals and aspirations for raising HER child… It is not your place to discourage her or be condescending because YOU weren’t successful in your goals or you don’t agree with hers. Instead of saying things like: “Every moms a perfect mom until they’re not😬” “Good luck with that🤣” How about you change your attitude and verbiage and speak life into her: “Wow, those are great goals! You are going to be a great mom. I hope all of these come to pass for you!”