I get overwhelmed very easily by messages and texts, especially over the past year. I do my best, but it doesn't matter who it is - sometimes (a lot of the time) I drop the ball, and I always feel wildly guilty about it. BUT I will absolutely chat for ages on the phone and in person. Pretty sure a big part of it is because typing gives me too much time to overthink about what I'm communicating, and I'm exhausted after composing a single paragraph (like this one).