2024-05-29 01:12
The avoidant discard - Most receipients would agree there probably is no way to accurately describe the level of emotional pain the experience brings. It happens out of nowhere and the avoidant always gives very vague, surface level reasons which are never reasons to severe any other healthy relationship. Variations of "its not you its me", incompatibility, just lost feelings etc. It really doesn't matter. Trying to rationalise the discard from the avoidant's words is futile.