Sadly, it's not bizarre for a female to think that way. It's really not that uncommon a situation. As a teenager I had a co-worker give my number to a customer who repeatedly called despite turning him down. As a young adult, I had a man look up my personal information at his work to call to ask me out. Don't take it personally.

Bizarre for you but this has actually happened to us plenty of times before. I’ve had people find out my address from gym memberships and walk their dog down my road and purposefully wait outside my house.