I'm 47. Had my boy band era as a teen and have been having it again with BTS. In these 6+ years I've been stanning them the most important thing I've learned is to ignore people who make comments like that. If they can't appreciate the things that make you happy you don't need them near you. Have fun, life is short and stressful on the daily...they make us smile and that's the most important thing. 💜💜