i struggle to process people who think highly of themselves just because they do things differently. we dont cope the same. who you see as outgoing, public, a burst of energy could be somebody who has no one to talk to or listen to them, vent or share their ideas to @ their own homes. who you think as a snob, aloof or private might be somebody whos undergone so much trauma that led them to keep things more to themselves. unless it's hurting somebody/themselves, just take care of your own affairs