The stories I’m hearing from divorced men (esp dads) are crushing… 😭 - loss of freedom: can’t move around for better jobs and opportunities because they want to stay close to their kids - loss of control: no say over the men/people their partner chooses to bring into their kids life & home environment - loss of quality time: dropping from being a 100% parent to (at best) a 50% parent; not being there for half of what their kids are going through 2 more below 👇

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幾秒內	James Traub jamestraub	- loss of respect (from their kids): esp when their partner tells stories or lies about them that they aren’t present to refute or explain - loss of wealth: higher living expenses being single, child support, and $300/hr lawyers and judges So many men are shattered by this experience. I know not every relationship can be saved, but I also know that many are ending prematurely due to ‘irreconcilable differences.’ Here the thing…
10 小時內	37 lucymg17	What a sexist take. Every single thing you listed happens equally to women. Majority of American courts are now pushing 50/50 custody.
13 小時內	Zocky uzername_zee	Espacially dads? 🤣🙄
13 小時內	Adriana Boyce adrianaboyce80	Seriously? What a tone deaf post. My ex introduced his very first girlfriend to my kids at 3 months, ASKED to drop custody, moved out of state alone, and fought me for less child support.
一天內	Shelly shelly_p1003	Oh, for the love of God, you have no idea what you’re talking about. This is both. You are 12 sir.
一天內	Chantal Saimi chantal_slk	He chose this. He chose not to fight for this family. I would have stuck with him til the day I died. Our family is broken now because he didn’t want to put in the work to fix our issues. I do not feel bad for him one bit.
一天內	SammyFosGaming sammyfosgaming	This whole thread reinforces my want to be child free. I won’t ever have to worry about potentially being put in this horrible situation on either side of the relationship.
2 天內	Justin Giddings • filmmaker justingiddings	Man, this is a depressing thread… I totally understand why a lot of women #ChooseTheBear. And now I can also see why some men ChooseTheTree 🤷‍♂️