Personally saying you’d do sumn with someone else or you’d go home with them or speaking on anyone attractiveness when you’re not around your partner is cheating. If you wouldn’t do it in front of them, and you have to be sneaky and do it when they’re not there, you’re cheating. Just bc it was brief and a “joke” doesn’t make it okay. Truthfully? ANYTHING you gotta HIDE from your partner or wait til they’re not around to do it say it or whatever, you’re cheating and that’s just a fact.🤷🏻‍♀️💯