Even if I find many idols attractive, I'm in it for the music. The music it what makes me happy & what makes me stay. However I do think you shouldn't put too much of a burden on idols in fancalls etc. For example it's a lot better to say "you and your music motivates & inspires me every day" rather than saying "you and your music saved me" (even if it did truly save you). 2/3

Let’s be real those who say it’s not healing arent in it for the music. If something brings you remotely ANY slight amount of joy I believe it has healed a part of you even if it’s small. Like other things in life kpop too can be healing 😊