Learn to: Dislike without hating Disagree without disavowing Tell the truth without condemning Draw boundaries without cursing Once you dip into the negative frequency, that’s all that is recognized The ocean does not judge whether the undercurrent swept away seaweed or surfers Both can be lost at sea, both may even wash up along the shoreside, but only one will remain as it was. The other is irreplaceable. LOVE 1 Cor. 13