There are SO many bisexual shes and theys, and so many who came out late or married a man and haven’t gotten to experience sapphic joy. And they’re (we’re) all begging for a spot at the lesbian table of acceptance as legitimate sapphics. Why aren’t we building our own table? We dont need to beg for acceptance. We can accept and support ourselves and each other. We can form our own community if others want to exclude us