your feelings are always valid remember that. It's okay to be mad at them, to cry, and to distance yourself if they do something to you. you don't need to hide your feelings, you don't need to be sorry for having emotions. you're not dramatic, over- reacting or sensitive it's okay to show it. always remember that your feelings are valid. It's okay to think of yourself first before others. you're not selfish, you are just choosing yourself first, your happiness, your peace of mind.