Being happy in your solitude is not isolation. some people, like myself, need the solitude to recharge. And when its passed 9pm, who the F you think I am, is not the same person. A few of my friends are surprised to see that I have a boundary about respecting my alone time at night. Dont go trying to, impromptu, match me with someone I don't know face to face, when all I expected was to enjoy my solitude, a nice game and something to watch on the side. I hate feeling forced to talk to new people