I have to agree with this. You can come for me all you want, but I've dated men in and out of my comfort zone. As a woman, this DOES NOT feel good AT ALL. If a man is working part time while you're slaving away trying to better your own life. This is the worst feeling, especially if you're struggling and the man cannot help you whatsoever. 💔 The love glasses can only help for so long until you realize they aren't a match for you. Equal mindset, equal goals, equal spirituality, equal LOVE ❤️.