Not 30 minutes ago I saw several posts asking why men can’t pursue after an initial “no”. This is why. And you can certainly be scared of conversing in public and rather do it online but I know a lot of people that disagree. As an example, before cellphones (or anything online) I had a friend that used to go out dancing. People would hit on her all night and ask for her number. It would scare her because back then it was easy enough to get someone’s address from a number so she’d give a fake