Ummm my mama did not wake me up for school. If I was late, I got the consequences of those actions. Same with homework and tests and papers. My parents were very much- learn by experience. Now, I never was late that often. And I never had failing grades. (Otherwise, there would’ve been more checking in and more restrictions on tv, friend time, etc). And my parents did not arrange play dates. My friends and I would decide to hang then ask our parents for permission to drive there/get rides/ etc.