"Most guys my age seem stuck in a lifestyle of smoking, drinking, and posting about it, with little ability to hold meaningful conversations. I try to see beyond this, hoping there’s more to them, but I often regret it. They sound shallow, struggle to engage in real discussions, and frequently cross boundaries—touching without consent and acting upset when told no. It’s exhausting and disheartening, especially when I give them the benefit of the doubt, only to be reminded why I shouldn't."