Because you have been ran through multiple men. And you can't jeep a relationship..

Cause the kids grow up and hate step daddy and go crying out for their real daddy. Also it’s a well known fact that women always spend the block on the at least one of the baby daddies, to be honest I think you already knew the answer to this question

Doesn't mean I need to be the one to clean that up and deal with the trauma that came with it.

Because none of us want to be your next child support victim that you talk shit about and deny time with the kid. Pretty simple really

Everyone does have past failed relationships but my exes aren’t gonna wake your ass up at 7am asking if you can get them some mfing cereal and I can guarantee you my ex won’t start arguing with you then run into the next room yell you aren’t my daddy and slam the fuckin door. And I can especially guarantee you you won’t have to cook dinner for any of my exes

Plus who the fuck wants to deal with you constantly getting pissed off cause your baby daddy is a low life and didn’t pick up the kids or pay child support or what the fuck ever. No one wants to hear that shit all the time and if you multiple baby daddy’s you know they are shit

How can you trust that she’ll stay with you when you and her have a kid together. Because the more likely scenario here is that she has kids with people just to collect child support. Men think logically. Think of the answer logically and you will get your answer.

Do you have to ask?

Because a lot of us have self respect and choose not to jump Into relationships time and time again because I knew the inevitable outcome. I prefer to date someone similar to me who does not have so much baggage. Stay in your lane and go date other single parents

When those are the failures it has to be seen as choices, or character traits. Also, mothers with multiple babydaddys are always damaged goods, they come with a ton of past traumas and trust issues. Considering who you marry can make you or break you it has to be seen as a deal breaker.