It means if I invest in you, what am I getting back, it's not a hard question, are you a drain on everything about me, or are you good soil that will multiply everything I bring..

Well, are you going to be financially responsible and pay your way? Are you career minded. Do you work? Drive? So you have dependents? This is what we're asking. If the answer is no, I bring my attention and time, well I supply that too but it doesn't pay the bills.

Just to see how hostile she responds. And to see how much she is willing to share.

isn’t this something that should be discussed? What responsibilities belong to whom and what chores and household needs are done by who and all that.

Because all we think about is food

Literally saw 3 posts a few minutes ago of women asking this same question about men. “What do men bring to the table?”

Simply because men deserve to see what’s behind the shell of external beauty. You can be beautiful but not show up for that man in ways he needs to be cared for, as an example.

What do you bring to the table then?

I have food allergies

Women want to be equals, which we agree, so if we’re going to be equal, you have to bring in equal value to the relationship