It's weird how some of the comments focus on the Temple but yet don't even want to attend our congregation in our Chapel. Our chapel is open to members AND non-members. Some members who have 2 weddings to accommodate those who are not eligible to enter into the temple. One is the Sealing wedding which is sacred and the other one can be done in our chapel by our bishop. If you're hurt about not attending your loved ones wedding than maybe you should be upset with them and not at the church.