I've learned that not everyone deserves a response. Alhamdullilah my husband always reminds me to stay above the negativity and jangan biarkan orang lain dictate my peace. Be a classy women means understanding that not every comment needs a reply, and that silence is sometimes the best answer. It can be tough to ignore hurtful words or gossip, especially when it comes from the people i knew. But responding to negativity with negativity only drags me down to their level.