What are you saying yes to that you should be saying no to? What are you saying no to that you should be saying yes to? It took raw honesty with myself to decide that my time investments aren’t allocated to growth, and pleasure doesn’t have to involve relaxation. Giving up eastern style comics for actual books that will help me gain skills in my areas of interest, and smoking weed for physical activity to decompress. When did I decide that mastery of self was work and not pleasure?