Dear dating apps, yes I look like Shrek. I had 2 cancers at once and needed 7 surgeries. I’ve lost half of the weight I gained from the chemotherapy treatment that included heavy doses of prednisone, which saw me gain 60 pounds. But I’m a good, honest and kind person, so stop this “anyone but this guy” crap. My gf at the time abandoned me when I got sick. DatingThreads I’ve been cancer free for 4 years, but it’s destroyed my dating life for no reason.