Live an amazing life on your own, live life to the fullest while you still single. So, when a man comes into your life, you don’t get overly excited, easily attached emotions to him or immediately thinking he is the one because he saves your life. Be intentional,present, calm & rational being with him. You know that you’re calm when you ask yourself — ‘Do i like him /does he fits into my life /align with my values?’ instead of asking ´Does he like me?’ & trying hard to make him like you.