Dear man, do not be sending these kinds of messages to women. Also, I don’t care if you’re in an open relationship. Get mad if you want to, but open relationships are weird to me and signals that the people in them probably have serious commitment issues. Sidenote, it’s also really disgusting when the so-called wife justifies her means creepy ass behavior. I am not in an open relationship nor do I plan to be, I am happily married, leave me alone.