This shit will never actually make sense to me. You don’t own anyone. People fall for each other and it likely has nothing to do with you and they aren’t bad people for doing so. If you have this rule for your friendships are you discussing it with all your friends first or is this part of that “girls girl, bro code” unspoken rule bs. Because I believe if you haven’t come to an explicit agreement you cannot enforce this rule.⬇️

love this take! IMO it would be different if it was an abusive ex, but that doesn’t seem at all to be what ur referring to here !