The whole "suffering is virtuous" mindset always makes me think of people who stand in front of empty seats on crowded public transportation. You think you're showing what a good and strong and stoic person you are. You're actually not only refusing to accept a convenience that's right there being offered to you; you're also denying anyone else (who may or may not be more "deserving") the chance to take advantage of it either. Don't be that jerk. Either sit down or get out of the way.