my ex filed for full custody, and due to the DV and years of manipulation, I believed he was going to get custody. When I got to appt to discuss his petition, they put his completed form in front of me, in his handwriting, he wrote the reason he should have full custody is… “she is impatient and never follows through on anything”, the court lady said are you impatient? I said I have a three-year-old a five-year-old yes, I’m impatient! Needless to say, I got full physical and legal custody.