Let people you meet on earth go to wherever they want. Life is limited, so why can we expect someone to stay with us for good? People will go when they need to, or are supposed to do so. Let yourselves feel bad, depressed, hopeless, or anything. Let memories linger until they fade as time goes by. Let God cure you. Let others console you. Let nature take its course. You deserve better than you are aware of. Believe in yourselves and the more suitable one will feel fortunate to be with you.