I don't get it. I see many postings from women who report escaping abusive relationships. What I don't get is ... How does one get into that situation? I mean ... Guys ... What are you doing to women who are physically less than you are. As spiderman movie said, "what comes with great power, comes great responsibility." And conversely, women, you also have great power - use your power of attraction wisely and choose from your friends list instead of your Rolodex of Chads.