I just saw a video and was genuinely surprised by the split of views in the comments. I want to hear what you guys think. Should a stay at home mom do all the raising, cleaning, chauffeuring, shopping, cooking, etc 24/7 meanwhile the husband/significant other works and doesn't do anything when they're home to help? Are people who do the stay at home mom job lazy and selfish when they think their significant other should help while they're home?