In my opinion it's cool to have a hobby or something that helps your mental health right be it cooking, cosplaying, gardening, games or whatever but it's when the unhealed unhealthy parts of you bleed over onto ppl that haven't cut you that's the problem. You can decompress from work and get lit at a con til your racist or handsy. You can join a book club to escape into the world on paper, until you become an elitist because you read those whole series already. Moral of the story, heal that shit