Check out the lovers and friends on YouTube. They will answer your question beautifully. She is great when it comes to sex education. Men are not mind readers and yes they have a tad bit of ego so it’s not easy to say that. So it’s our jobs as woman to let they know. So while you in the bedroom if you like what he doing let him know with ques such as “stay right there”. Sometimes praise on certain things you like “you know that thing we did yesterday …..”