My mom and step dad were arguing about this the other day and asked what I thought and I was like “*step dads name*” it takes two seconds to put the toilet seat down after you use it. And my mom was like “THANK YOU” and then I looked at my mom and said “in that same vein it takes two seconds to put it down, look before you sit down and put it down yourself, is it really worth arguing over? I’m not on either of your sides”