Why has my son suddenly stopped speaking to me ? My partner died last year and ever since our relationship has turned sour. He doesn’t support me or want anything to do with me , I don’t understand what he’s playing at . They’ve just had their first child and I’m not allowed to see him . I’m sure I’ve hurt him somewhere along the line but I certainly can’t think of anything specific. I have a new partner now , who I’m sure my son doesn’t like , surely this can’t be the reason?