The day you manage to stay calm in front of whoever provokes you, when your silence is the right answer, the day you manage to stay calm in the face of the storm, you win! It is no longer about winning or losing, being better or worse, having or not having, it is about the fact that finally, you have reached the top of a very high mountain, and it is to conquer you, prioritize yourself and put your mental health first, your emotional intelligence. Love yourself.