The “you get what you give” type replies in relation to how I speak to men who start off with insults really crack me up, because it’s always only about *my* behavior. If I’m the one being kinda angry, then I deserve any angry or demeaning response, but if he is angry, I need to just “be nice about it”. YOU 👏🏻 GET 👏🏻 WHAT 👏🏻 YOU 👏🏻 GIVE