Agreed. BBQ’s are about the meat. If that’s not your thing, eat before or don’t go. I have a shellfish allergy and for 30 yrs I didn’t eat pork or beef. I brought my own turkey burgers or ate before. I don’t go to anyone’s home and expect them to create a menu around my personal tastes when they don’t align with the majority. If I go, im going for the company. Not the food.